Friday, October 30, 2009

Once in a blue moon


En.H boleh menjadi sangat romantis.
Auuuwwww.


Isinya tidak dapat didedahkan kerana sebab-sebab yang sangat munasabah puan2x yek.
Takut ada yang sakit jantung nanti :P


Yang ini memang sungguh men'surprise'kan saya.I like!


Selepas ini Puan.H akan berbau KENZO di rumah ye.
Dan restricted for in-house used only.(takkan nak kene berceramah bab berhias diri untuk muslimah pulak kan ;))


Sekian terima kasih.


Owh lupa pulak geng budak ber 2 nih.
Featuring sis Tifa and bro Fahri.

Peace!



Thursday, October 29, 2009

Pedas



Tapi sedap.
Kicap Jalen.....hehehe.
Iklan sikit apa salahnya.(saya belum pernah cuba jenama ini lagi)

Sebetulnya saya nak bersuara tentang ini: Aurat Muslimah-Rambut
Tak mahu tulis banyak-banyak.Isu panas dan pedas.Sementelah saya pun bukan berjubah purdah.Agak-agak sedar diri juga.

Cuma teruja hendak berkongsi pendapat si suami beberapa malam yang lalu.

perempuan yang degil tak mahu bertutup betul-betul tapi solat tak tinggal ni pelik juga ye.Macam bila solat zuhur pandai pulak dia solat 4 rakaat.Kenapa tak pandai-pandai sendiri buat 1 rakaat ke,2 rakaat ke atau kalau rajin buat 10 rakaat terus.Tapi bila masuk bab bertudung,ada yang pandai2x separuh tutup,ada yang depan tutup belakang nampak,ada yang tutup belakang depan didedah sampai nampak juga lurahnya.Macam2x 'fesen' ada.Kebanyakkannya tidak seperti mengikut apa yang tertulis di dalam kitab mulia kita.


Nampak keironiannya?

Berulangkali pernah saya catatkan disini.
Islamlah sepenuhnya.Ini bukan macam peribahasa "pilih-pilih ruas".





Nota kaki suam-suam air : janganlah pula ada yang betul-betul solat zuhur 1 rakaat nanti.Haru!

Nota kaki air panas : Memetik kata-kata daripada si dia "wear anything u like as long as u show us your boobs, it'll turn out that every man 'loves' you".Betul kan!

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Complaints





This is a very interesting issue to me.
I guess most of the point on the list is exactly whats on my mind. (tidak ku pandai untuk meluahkannya :P)





COMMON CUSTOMER COMPLAINTS ABOUT RETAILERS


TRUE LIES
Blatant dishonesty or unfairness
Selling unneeded services
Purposely quoting low ball cost estimates


RED ALERT
Assuming customers are stupid or dishonest
Treating them harshly or disrespectfully

BROKEN PROMISES
Retailers not performing as per their promise - careless mistakes prone services


I JUST WORK HERE
Powerless employees who lack the authority or desire to solve basic customer problems

THE BIG WAIT
Waiting in the line just because some of the checkout lanes or service counters are closed


SUFFERING IN SILENCE
Employees who don’t bother to communicate with customers who are anxious to hear how a service problem will be resolved

DON’T ASK
Employees unwilling to make any extra effort to help customers


LIGHTS ON, NO ONE’S HOME

Clueless employees who do not know the answers to customers’ common questions


EMPLOYEE WHO VISITS EACH OTHER
Or conducts personal business while customer waits
Refuse to assist because they are on break




The most irritating and annoying and "rasa nak hempok'ing" is the RED ALERT one'lah'.Of course!Especially the one with the 'cash' duty.

Muka masam satu hal.Bila tanya kadang2x tak jawab lansung.Kadang2x antara dengar tak dengar.Time kita tegur dia 'terpunch' 2-3 kali harga satu2x barang tu,bleh dia buat muka tak tahu je.Itu yang pada pendapat saya masa nak beratur bayar eloklah dipilih-pilih sikit cashernya.Memanglah susah nak agak reaksinya,tapi kalau dari jauh tu dah menunjukkan aksi2x yang kurang menyenangkan,carilah yang lainkan.

As for me,saya lebih suka cashernya kaum adam.Simple.(mind you..not apply to all yek!)Bukanlah bermaksud kaum hawa tak bagus,faham2xlah kalau dah penat sangat,time bulan mengambang pulak tu,ditambah bergaduh pula dengan si buah hati.(sekali lagi mind you..not apply to all yek!)Tak ke haru tu?But kaum adam ke,hawa ke you must be very careful masa diorang dok punch2x harga tu.Pastikan harga yang betul.Punch sekali je kecualilah barang yang sama with the same price ada 2,3.

Well, when we talk about this : manners, i guess it is not as simple as 'masak air'.To shaped it perfectly and beautifully is nearly impossible since we are all just a human.Everyone makes mistake.But if we learnt and getting better and better everytime after we make those mistakes it would probably the perfectest one!

Monday, October 26, 2009

Kera Kena Belacan?Oh tidak!

Assalamualaikum

Okeh.....setelah berbloghop berjam-jam tadi....saya jumpa berita ini yang agak menarik juga untuk diperkatakan.

Cuba baca dulu.


Warga Emas Terselamat Dari Denda RM20,000 Kerana Belacan


DUNGUN, 21 Okt (Bernama) -- Mahkamah Majistret Dungun di sini Rabu mengenakan denda RM600 ke atas seorang wanita warga emas yang menjalankan perusahaan membungkus belacan akibat bahan tersebut tidak mengandungi protein mencukupi.Rohani Ali, 56, didapati melanggar Peraturan-peraturan Makanan 1985 yang menyatakan belacan hendaklah mengandungi tidak kurang 25 peratus protein.


Menurut fakta kes yang dibacakan di hadapan Majistret Mohd Yusoff Yunus, sampel belacan yang dipaket oleh Rohani dengan harga RM2.50 untuk 400 gram, setelah diuji didapati kekurangan protein iaitu hanya mengandungi sebanyak 23.75 peratus.Sampel belacan itu diuji Pejabat Kesihatan Daerah Dungun pada 7 April lalu.Kesalahan tersebut tertakluk di bawah Seksyen 13B(2)(e) Akta Makanan 1983 dan boleh dihukum di bawah Seksyen 13B(4) akta yang sama melibatkan denda tidak melebihi RM20,000 atau penjara tidak melebihi lima tahun atau kedua-duanya sekali.Rohani mengaku salah terhadap dakwaan berkenaan.

Setelah rayuan, Mohd Yusoff mengenakan denda ke atas Rohani sebanyak RM600. Denda dibayar oleh suaminya Dzurudin Abdullah, 62.Jabatan Kesihatan Dungun diwakili Penolong Pegawai Kesihatan Persekitaran Mohd Yusoff Othman.

BERNAMA


So...camne?

Nak gelak pun ada.Kesian jugak pun ada.Gelak sebab belacan tak cukup protien?Hellooooo.Rasa-rasanya baik pergi serbu kilang2x yang buat makanan letak racun(Eh..MSG tu kategori racun tak?) berlebihan ke.Yang letak pewarna,perasa tiruan ke?Yang sembelih binatang halal makan jadi tak halal tu ke?Ishhh banyak lagiklaaa yang hebat2x kesnya dari belacan tak cukup protein nih.

Kesian kat makcik Rohani ni.Dah pangkat nenek dah pun.Jual belacan pun 2.50 je okeh.Bukannya 250 atau 2500 hengget.

Anyway saya tidaklah menyalahkan yang menguatkuasakan peraturan ni.Cuma kerana terlalu banyak lagi kes yang lebih besar( atau boleh dipanggil masalah) yang membuatkan kita semua menjadi mangsa berbanding isu belacan tak cukup protein ni.


p/s: eh..ke kalau belacan tak cukup protein ni boleh memudaratkan?
Huh.....kene tanya doktor nih :P

Friday, October 23, 2009

Overwhelmed mom

Assalamualaikum

Ditambah kisah sedih arwah adik alia yg teraniaya,saya jadi tambah2x takde mood sekarang.Entahlah cepat sangat mood down bila baca cite2x sedih.Lepas tu tengok pulak 'O' show pasal 'Overwhelmed moms'.Huh...lagiklah downnya.

Btw korang ada yg tengok tak issue yang atas tuh kat Oprah?Yang tengok tu sure ada rasa sikit2x terhenti nafas sekejap and cuba breath dengan slow2x.Sebabnya...perkara yang terjadi pada adik cecelia tuh mungkin akan terjadi pada siapa2x aje kan.Bahkan kat M'sia ni pun rasanya ada je kes macam tuh..cuma liputannya taklah meluas mcm kes adik cecelia sbb mak dia diinterbeiu oleh si Oprah.

Pada yang dah tengok show tu,perlu kita fikir2xkan and jugak take action sepermana yang disarankan oleh dr.Norman tuh (bukan norman hakim puan2x yek).Yang terlepas tengok or tak berpeluang tengok saya suka berkongsi kat sini untuk dijadikan panduan buat kita semua.But panjang sikitlah n3 kali ni.

Saya copy from Oprah.com.

If nak baca sendiri klik kat sini http://www.oprah.com/slideshow/oprahshow/20080902_tows_moms/1


Kisah adik cecilia yang meninggal sbb strok haba dalam kereta.

When Brenda woke up on August 23, 2007, she says she knew she had a busy day ahead of her. Summer vacation was coming to a close, and it was the first day back for teachers at her school. That morning, the rush to get out the door was more frantic than usual, she says.

Brenda and her husband, Gary, got their two young daughters, Allison and Cecilia, dressed and ready to go. Then, in a departure from their regular routine, Brenda loaded 2-year-old Cecilia into her car to take her to the babysitter's house.

"I had a dentist appointment, and I asked Brenda to take Cecilia," Gary says. "I normally took both Cecilia and Allison, dropped Cecilia off at the sitter and Allison off at preschool."

With Cecilia sleeping in the backseat, Brenda pulled out of the driveway at about 6 a.m. When she realized it was too early to drop her youngest child off, she decided to run a quick errand. Brenda stopped at the store to buy doughnuts, a treat for the returning teachers.

After loading her car with snacks, she got on the road that led to her school and drove straight there. With her mind racing through all the things she needed to accomplish before teachers arrived, Brenda got right to work. "I had lots of things to set up," she says. "I was nervous and frantic that morning because it was such an important day to get the school year [off] to a great start."

The day began with a staff meeting, followed by lunch. While chatting with new teachers between meetings, Brenda says she talked about her daughters. "My feeling was it was a great first start," she says. "It was going to be a great school year, and it was a great start to the day."

At about 4 p.m., Brenda was in her office, getting ready to head home when all hell broke loose. "A good teacher friend of mine—sometimes I think it was a blessing it was her—was on her way home, and she walked by my car," Brenda says. "She ran into my office and she said, 'Brenda, your baby's in the car.'"
Brenda immediately grabbed her keys and raced to the parking lot. "I knew what I was going to find," she says. "I opened my car door, and I remember hearing the voices around me. Teachers who were close to me [were] screaming."

When she got to her car she found Cecilia in the backseat, still strapped into her car seat. Brenda says she grabbed her daughter out of the car as fast as she could, but she knew it was too late.

"I knew she was gone as soon as I picked her up, I knew," she says. "I remember I took her, and I ran through the parking lot with her, screaming her name. Then, what brought me kind of to consciousness, I guess, was somebody from the cafeteria yelled for me to bring her here."

Brenda says she handed her lifeless daughter to someone who tried to revive her. Then, she retreated to another part of the cafeteria and began to pray. "I heard people yelling for ice, and I sat in a ball and I prayed," she says. "I prayed harder than I've ever prayed in my life. … But I knew she was gone."

Cecilia died of a heatstroke after being left in the car for nearly eight hours. Outside, temperatures had reached 100 degrees.

Sorang komentar yang bercerita ada budak ditinggalkan mati kelaparan dalam rumah sebab parent nak pergi bercuti !

I read this at 21 yrs of age, it changed my life.
A young couple planned a vacation and hired a neighborhood lady to babysit their 8 month old daughter for the week they would be gone. On the morning of their trip the babysitter was late, which had also happened before, and since she was so reliable, they put the baby in her highchair with some dry cereal and left the back door unlocked as they had done before. The young couple then went on to the airport to catch their flight. When they returned a week later, their little girl was dead in her highchair, dehydrated , starved to death. The babysitter never showed up as her Mother had a stroke the night before and she left to care for her, forgetting about her babysitting arrangement. When she did remember, the sitter figured they had hired someone else when she didn't show up.

I read this story with horror...imagining what that poor little child went through till her ultimate demise. I promised myself then, I would always put my children first, phone off the hook at bathtime, never leaving them in the car alone for any reason, never hiring unknown sitters, etc. It paid off...four healthy beautiful kids, eleven fantastic grandkids!!! We live in a busy, hectic world...we need to really slow down and enjoy our kids and our lives. That should ALWAYS be our main priority!


Ini nasihat seorang guru Zen

Norman Fischer, a well-known Zen teacher, says there is an epidemic of overwhelmed people. Because we now have more possibilities, Norman says our expectations have been raised to unattainable heights.

Norman says busy moms should stop trying to reach perfection and focus more on their happiness, attitude and state of mind. "I think that the first thing we've got to do is recognize that especially as mothers, but all of us, our state of mind and our attitude is our most precious gift that we give to each other," he says. "Every day, we ought to wake up and we ought to say: 'How is my state of mind today? Am I losing ground?' If I am, I better address that first because the rest of the stuff I do won't be worth anything if I'm harried and hassled and in a bad mood."

In hopes of finding relief from feeling hassled and harried, Norman believes mothers first need to recognize that they are overwhelmed. Once that moment is realized, he says you need to stop whatever you're doing and take three conscious breaths. The hope is that with each breath you take, you will allow yourself to be more aware of your situation. Norman says this will allow you to focus on the task at hand.

Though our society stresses the importance of being able to handle multiple tasks at one time, Norman says there is no such thing as multitasking. Instead, we switch from one task to another. This switching prevents us from being able to do one task with any intensity or commitment. "Whatever you are doing. Do it. Do it completely. Bring your whole attention to it," Norman says. "Be present in everything that you do."

In order to help prepare yourself for each day, Norman recommends that you take time for yourself. "Take 20, 30 minutes. Get up before your kids early in the morning. Loss of sleep is worth it, if you can have 30 minutes absolute[ly] to yourself, to breathe, return to yourself, digest yesterday's emotions, take stock of yourself and set yourself up for the day," Norman says. "That amount of time saves you time throughout the day."

Norman believes feeling overwhelmed can be remedied by taking care of yourself. "We need to know our own condition. When we see when we are losing ground ... we need to ask for help," he says.

The first person a woman should turn to for help is her husband. "I can't believe the husbands are not the first line of help," Norman says. "I mean, the husbands should be sharing all these burdens exactly equally. It makes no sense to have a husband and not get any good out of him!"

Oprah says husbands are more involved than they were 20 years ago, but the workload certainly isn't equal in most households. "For a lot of women, it hasn't [changed], because women don't know how to ask for help," she says. "Also, [they] think that it's their burden and responsibility to carry it all and do it all."

"When conditions are tough, we don't do well," Norman says. "We need to know that, not be ashamed of it and address it."


Okeh...camne?Tak semestinya article ni untuk puan2x yang bekerja and mother at the same time.Bagi saya yang SAHM ni pun ada gak sindrom overwhelmed nih.So....sama-samalah kita muhasabah diri selalu.Mohon dilindungi daripada segala bala dan malapetaka.Amin.

Jangan lupa...

breath in....

breath out...

breath in....

breath out...

now.......

huh!

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Mood

Mood tak baik sangat sekarang.
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Tido lagi baik.Huh!

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Alif Ba Ta

Assalamualaikum




Well,lama tak jengok blog nih.Sibuk dengan anak-anak.Yang besar dengan homeschool dia.Yang kecik dengan nak tumbuh giginya.Al-maklumla kalau gigi nak keluar tuh.Macam-macam 'peel' ada.

Berbalik kepada tajuk besar kat atas tuh,hari ni si kakak dah beralih ke buku Iqra' 2.Alhamdulillah dia melepasi ujian bacaan,sebutan dengan jayanya.Actually saya tak expect tinggi sangat untuk dia membaca huruf2x tuh dengan sebutan yang sangat betul.Maklumlah kan macam huruf 'gho','sa','dho' dan seangkatan dengannya yang macam payah sikit nak sebut tuh,ingatkan kene baca ulang2xlah.Tapi turns out dia memang boleh sebut dengan betul.

Suka pulak saya dengar bila dia mengaji dengan lancar dan menyebut dengan betul.Syukur pada ALLAH.Teringat dekat tok guru saya kat kampung.Saya panggil "Pak Long".Takde ustaz2xnya.Tapi dia memang imam surau kat kawasan tu.Masa zaman saya mengaji dengan dia,ada 4 orang murid je.Bayar bulan2x pun takde dikira sangat.Bukannya kelas mengaji dasat2x macam sekarang.Wajib bayor.Hehehe.Tapi ilmu yang kita dapat tuh,alhamdulillah sampai sekarang masih lekat dimulut ni.Tu yang hebatnya guru2x mengaji dulu2x.

Well,kalau diikutkan hati anak-anak saya ni hendak aje saya hantarkan mengaji dengan Pak Long ni.Ya tuan puan,Pak Long ni masih lagi mengajar mengaji.Dia mengajar orang2x besar sekarang.(besar = dewasa :P).Harapnyalah....

Orait,thats all pasal alif ba ta si kakak.Nak masak nasi goreng kegeramaran En.H pulak.

Friday, October 9, 2009

Annoying words

Assalamualaikum


Eh! tadikan saya baca cnn, tertarik pulak dgn news nih.Sila-sila... baca yek :)




NEW YORK (CNN) -- Nearly half of Americans surveyed said they find "whatever" to be the most annoying word or phrase, according to a poll by the Marist Institute for Public Opinion.

Politico.com counted Caroline Kennedy using "you know" 142 times in an interview with The New York Times.

The research center at Marist College did a telephone survey of 938 people that was prompted by a casual conversation with employees of the institute.

"What we chose were words that were used as 'dismissive,' " said Mary Azzoli, the institute's media director. "We chose words that we felt were overused."

"The list was so long so we said 'why not do a poll,' " Azzoli said.

"You know" was the second most annoying phrase.

That phrase was spotlighted last winter, when Caroline Kennedy was being considered for the U.S. Senate seat from New York, vacated by Hillary Rodham Clinton.

In a televised interview and in an interview with The New York Times, Kennedy used the words so much she was ridiculed by the New York media.

At one point, Kennedy said "you know" four times in one sentence.

"You know, I can tell you, you know, in my family, you know, there was a sense, you know, we have to work twice as hard," she said.

Politico.com said Kennedy used the phrase 142 times in the Times interview.

Respondents also said they were annoyed by the overuse of "anyway," "it is what it is" and "at the end of the day."

The words "whatever" and "anyway" re-entered the American pop lexicon following the release of popular films like "Clueless" (1995) and "Valley Girl" (1983). Both are about the shallow lives of teenagers in suburban California.




Korang rasa camne?Ada words yg rasa2x nyampah betul orang menyebutnya.Nak2x byk kali ulang pulak tuh.Sila-silakan berkongsi.Saja nak tau. :)

p/s: gambar takde kaitan yek dgn cerita.Kesian robot tuh.Tak bersalah.Huhuhu

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Big M again!


Assalamualaikum


Saya memang tengah malas nih.

Betullah macam gaya cat tuh.Cuma saya baring betul2xlah depan tv.Huhuhu.
Malas masak,malas update blog,malas basuh kain tapi tadi saya rajin kemas 'working room' En.H sebab dah teruk sangat bersepahnya. (upahnya En.H jgn lupe yek :P)

Semoga esok big M saya tuh hilanglah.Amin.

Friday, October 2, 2009

Nasi lemak

Assalamualaikum


Kadang2x saya memang tak tahulah nak tulis apa.Kadang2x banyak sangat yg nak ditulis pun jadi masalah jugak.Sudahnya lansung tak tertaip.

Well hari ni saya masak nasi lemak.

Ikan bilis - check.
Telur goreng - check.
Sambal - check tapi masin sikit.
Timun - uncheck.Tak beli pun.


En.H dah makan.Kakak tifa dah makan.Si kecik pun makan nasi lemak jugak.

Dah lama sebenarnya tak buat nasi lemak ni.Yelah last month kn bulan pose.Tak masuk menu berbuka pun.

Apa-apa pun nasi lemak dengan ayam goreng berempah memang superb.Hari ni takde menu ayam.Petiais pun dah mulai kosong.Dah hujung minggu pun.

Esok dan lusa pulak ada jemputan beraya.Open house tu takdelah.Lebih kepada nak melawat kawan2x,sedara-mara yang dah lama tak bersua muka.Eratkan silaturrahim.


So kawan2x makan beringat-ingat ye.Jangan berlebih-lebihan.

Wasatiah selalu!